Some of you may know this already… and some of you may not, so it’s only right that we make a post about it. May is International Masturbation Month! Yes, this is a month dedicated to celebrating self-love and all of the wonderful things relating to it. Masturbation is not often talked about as it is still taboo, and it certainly is a conversation that is constantly avoided amongst women. But in recent years, it seems that women have become more comfortable and confident in their sexuality. One way to explore more of that sexuality is through masturbation as personal sexy time can be a way to discover what you like or don’t like. Solo sex is nothing to be ashamed of because believe it or not, it’s a natural and beautiful experience.
What the Heck Is Masturbation Month?
The first National Masturbation Day was observed on May 14, 1995 by Good Vibrations, a sex-positive retailer. Good Vibrations were disturbed to learn that Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired by former President Bill Clinton for wanting to incorporate masturbation into sex education in schools. Since then, National Masturbation Month has been celebrated and eventually reached a global level and turned into International Masturbation Month. The purpose is to encourage and educate people of the physical, emotional, and mental benefits of masturbation.
Awesome Things You Can Learn From Masturbation.
While masturbation seems pretty self explanatory, there are still some things you can learn from this joyous experience. You learn more about what makes you feel good. This can be so useful once you get your partner involved, and your partner will probably thank you for it. Another awesome thing is that this is a good time to explore erogenous zones, such as nipples, thighs, neck, etc. Masturbation can also result in stronger orgasms. When masturbating regularly, you are giving your muscles the much needed workout for intense orgasms. When an orgasm occurs, the muscles in the vagina, uterus, and anus contract and release, which creates those pleasurable feelings.
Lastly, masturbation will make you crave sex more with a partner as hormones called oxytocin are released during orgasm.
5 Gifts for the Self Love Lover in Your Life
There isn’t just one way to masturbate and luckily, there are many different “tools” made to make it more exciting. Here, we have our top 5 gifts to make your solo sex sessions mind-blowing:
1. Intimate Earth - Elite All In One Massage and Silicone Glide
When it comes to your own self-pleasure, you want to make sure it’s done the way you want it done. What makes this experience promising is that you have all of the control. You can take as much time as you need. So why not splurge with a quality product such as Intimate Earth’s Elite All-In-one Massage and Silicone Glide? Yes, it’s a massage and silicone glide combined and is bound to turn your massage into something more.
2. Rianne S - Moon Vibe French Rose
I cannot recommend Rianne S products enough. The products are cute, feminine, and most importantly, pleasurable. This charming moon-shaped vibrator has 7 unique vibrating patterns that will instantly bring you into a state of euphoria.
3. Intimate Earth - Sensual Aromatherapy Massage Oil Cocoa Bean & Goji Berry
There are so many massage oils that exist out there, but none really compare to Intimate Earth Aromatherapy Massage Oils. Why? Because Intimate Earth is one of the very few to utilize almond oil as their main ingredient. This is important to know because almond oil, which is the most nourishing for the skin and lasts much longer than hemp or soybean oil. This ingredient is also the reason why the scents come out pure and smelling exactly like their names suggest. The Sensual Aromatherapy Massage Oil is one of my favorites as I love the combination of cocoa bean & Goji Berry. The word cocoa itself just sounds sexy, and rubbing this massage oil all over my body will have me feeling like “a whole snack”. Facts.
4. Bottle of Wine
Wine makes a great addition to your self-love night. There’s something about wine (personally I enjoy red wine) that makes me feel incredibly sexy and it can be enjoyed alone. My favorite kind of red wine is pinot noir because it’s not sweet and is considered a dry wine. That’s just my personal preference. If you want something sweet, I would suggest Riesling. Either way, a nice glass of wine tends to set the mood. Forgot the calories. You deserve a treat.
5. Lingerie
Who says you can only wear lingerie when in the presence of a lover? Nobody. Exactly. So pull out those lacy panties and bra, put together a seductive playlist and do a sexy dance in front of the mirror. This is your moment. You’re in charge now.
Why masturbation is more about self love than just orgasms
Masturbation really is about connecting physically and emotionally with ourselves. It’s just as natural and beautiful as having sex with a lover. Sure, it’s always nice to get to that highly anticipated orgasm, but taking the time to be more in tune with your body can positively impact your self-confidence including sex appeal, mood, brain function, relationships, and productivity.
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